Welcome to my Tribute Fund. I have created this page to help raise money for the Motor Neurone Disease Association in memory of my father Arthur Clough, who sadly died on the 19th April 2005, only 5 weeks after he was diagnosed with ALS. Of course there is so much to say about Dad and so much I would like to say, but there is certainly not enough room here. Therefore I thought it would be nice to share some of the memories and thoughts that were shared by Arthur’s wife Pam and his children at the funeral. In preparation of any forthcoming events (such as weddings) these thoughts may give those who didn’t know Arthur personally (but are here to make a donation to the MND Association) some idea of his wonderful personality. Al though you knew I loved you Dad, I wish that I could have arrived in time to tell you and to say goodbye. Regardless or our differences, I have never stopped caring and I know you didn’t too. Dad, thank you and I love you. Jayne Dad – you were the best. You knew so much and could do so much and the bigger the challenge, the more determined you were to take it on. I loved being around you and enjoyed the fun we had. You were the perfect Grandad and my girls adored you and were always so excited and happy to see you. I know they will miss you as much as I will. Sometimes Pam and Manel say we are alike in so many ways, the way we both enjoy DIY challenges, our methodical thinking and sadly, our bad sense of humour. Dad, I have nothing but the utmost respect for you and would not dare swear in front of you so to this end, I won’t say goodbye, but now you can’t hit me, I’d like to say see you bloody later. Martin Dad, I wish so much that you could be here to walk me down the aisle and give me away, we hoped to surprise you with a wedding date soon but time was sadly against us, but I know you will be there at my side. Dad, not only were you the best father to me but you were like a father to Karl. He loved you very much. I am so happy that the two most important men in my life were the best of friends. I will always love you so much Dad. Your little girl Rebecca Dad, I love you, I miss you, finding it hard to let go. This world feels a lot larger and scarier without you. But I am trying to be strong for you, with mum, Elaine and the rest of the family by my side and knowing that you are looking down on me. No one could have had a better friend, mentor or father. I love you forever. Nick Aft. For being there. For being you. For being Grandad. Thank you. Sleep well. Safe journey. Our love always. Steve Aft, we didn’t always see eye to eye, I later found out this was due to a mixture of misunderstanding of why, and what happened for me to suddenly have a second father figure, and immaturity. When I hit my early twenty’s I started settling down from my wild ways, having met Sarah, who you had a lot of time for, and we started to realise we had a lot in common. I have felt honoured by the trust you put in me, and even more so when you asked for my advice – it is so strange when someone of your intelligence seeks advice from the very same person that you constantly gave guidance to. We spoke in depth only a few weeks ago, and I am sure I put your mind at rest with reassurance that all you children have settled and will support each other at the drop of a hat, and more importantly to you, are all here to support mum who you so obviously love from the very bottom of your heart. Sarah and I will miss you deeply and thank you for the many good times we have had. All my love Matt Aft. We spent 30 volatile (26 married) years together, but they were filled with laughter and a lot of love. I don't know what I will do without you. All my love as always. Pam All money raised on these pages will be earmarked as being donations made via this Tribute Fund for Arthur Clough when they reach Motor Neurone Disease Association. Simply choose one of the links above to see what you can do. If you like, you can also sign the guest book and tell other people about this service. Lots of Love, Rebecca Clough